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Saturday, June 06, 2009 from 6:00 PM - 9:30 PM (PT)
Social Symposium is San Francisco's premier event series, created for the purpose of bringing together the Bay Area's socially-enlightened men and showcasing the world's best and most talented social, sexual, and relationship experts.
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Respect to the nearly 150 individuals who have attended and supported Social Symposium over the past 14 months. As our events grow, expect to see more new and exciting improvements aimed at giving you real tangible results in your dating life and beyond.
If you didn't make it or haven't addended Social Symposium yet, now is the right time as I am pleased to announce that San Francisco's own Erik C will be taking the stage this month and giving you some highly capitavting and relevant topics. Not only has Erik conistently shown the Bay Area that he is incredibly skilled in the art of being succesful with women, but he is also a close personal friend and someone I respect highly for his strength, determination, and committment to giving value.
His talk will be focused on quick and heavy escalation and pulling, and will cover the following specifically:
-Opening with immediate escalation:
How this relates to kino, his personal escalation ladder, and specific concrete examples
-Going in for the kiss:
How to and what to look for, how to deal with her giving you the cheek, pulling away, or other resistance. Including live female demonstrations.
-How to deal with the friends and AMOGs:
What to do when working a quick escalation set and the friends swoop in. How to get in approval from the friends to leverage more attraction, and how to use them against one another to help escalate even more. Also how to deal with guys and how to use a tooling guy as a way to generate more attraction.
-Sexual BT:
After the make out, what to do to get a woman more aroused and getting her thinking of having sex with you that night. Including finding her turn-on spots, dirty, descriptive talk, and other ways to get her turned on and ready to be pulled.
-Pulling:
The different ways to get girls from the bar/club back to your house. Why to wait getting her number until the next morning, how to sell going back to your place, and best ways to deal with LMR (actually more about how to just not get it at all).
-Types of pulls, the breakdown of each type with specific examples, including...
-Quick pulls: 5 minutes or less from opening.
-Attraction pulling: Involving heavy BT spikes, and overriding her logic with attraction and sexual emotions.
-Rapport pulling: How to connect with a woman on a deep level, and be very forward with your intentions.
EXTRAS:
-Mindset, frame, state control:
The most effective beliefs and attitudes, how this relates to framing, and ways of getting into state quickly and easily
-Making a ONS in to something more:
How to backload comfort, and demonstrate that you won't judge her for the one night stand, and how to use future projections to maintain the relationship.
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"I wasn’t always a skilled in the art of meeting and attracting women. I was quite incompetent with it for most of my life.
When
I was 16 years-old, I weighed about 260 lbs. At my worst, a few years
later, I was close to 300 lbs and suicidally depressed.
I grew
up in a very small town, and being “The Fat Kid” was pretty hard. The
other kids picked on me a lot, and the only looks that I ever got from
girls were contemptuous sneers. Because of all of this, I left high
school with very, very low-self esteem and self-worth.
Over the
next few years, I started to lose weight and get to a place where I was
physically healthy again, but all of the years of being bullied and
ostracized still weighted heavily on me. Despite having lost to close
to 100 lbs by this point, I still felt like that fat kid inside, and I
still struggled with looking at myself in the mirror and liking who was
looking back at me.
As I started growing in to my own, I began
to feel better about who I was and the path that I was taking in
life–but there was still always this nagging question of women. By this
point, I had kissed a few women, but it ended so poorly most of the
time that the girl would never want to see me again. I was so nervous
about my first kiss that the girl actually stopped and said, “Are you
OK? Because you’re shaking a lot…” And this about summed up my
experience with women.
For the longest time, I couldn’t even
imagine a woman finding me attractive. From my experience with girls
growing up, I couldn’t even wrap my head around the idea that someone
could really find me attractive and want to spend time with me.
Then something happened.
A
friend of mine always knew that I was girl crazy, and he told me, “Hey,
I read this book called ‘The Game’ it’s about how this nerd learns to
pick-up artist and he become really successful with women, you should
read it.
I went to the bookstore immediately and processed to
consume the book in one sitting. I was floored, this was really a skill
set that could be learned. Holy Sh*t…
I DON’T HAVE TO BE ALONE ANYMORE!!!
And
from here I was on the way up. I started approaching women and getting
rejected time and time again. It hurt, I felt inadequate and like a
loser, but I wanted this so fu*king bad, I didn’t care if I was
rejected 3,000 times–I wanted this.
Slowly over the next year, I
got better and better and started to build this skill set. And from
here the rest of this was a lot a grueling, hard work and
self-realizations. And that’s really about my story."
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Erik has
been a dating instructor for several years and has helped heaps of
people get the dating lives that they desire. He has lead several
workshops over the years, in addition to giving lectures and providing
unparalleled personal coaching that has given his clients results that
they never thought were possible.
Over the past three years
has approached thousands of women and dated scores of those women. He
has dated everything from 18-year old models to women that have PhD’s
from ivy league schools and everything in between. Erik has also gotten
similar results for the clients that he has worked with over the years.
Erik has worked as a professional dating coach for the past two years. He currently resides and works in San Francisco, CA.
Watch Erik C's video biography here:
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1020885796753823983
Learn more about Erik C here:
http://social-freedom.com/
Reviews:
"Where do I begin with Erik? As an instructor he is at the upper
echelons in all the characteristics that makes a great instructor: the
ability to see what is pertinent, the ability to teach, integrity and
honesty, entertaining flashy high octane game, even subtle indirect
game, targeting attractive women and barreling through. It is more than
common sense and intelligence. He has a natural smooth knack for this
and is a methodical tactician as well. I was a client of Erik's and I
got more than my money’s worth. I feel like he was the right choice
when I took the course with him."
-Fate, San Francisco, CA
“Erik
understands the frustration many of us have in our dealings with women:
the frustration and the ego shocks when a woman ignores you in a bar or
doesn't return your phone call. Erik understands because he's been
there and overcome it, conquering his inner voice and ego to approach
women literally anywhere -- cafes, the park, a club, anywhere. Beyond
his own skills which are undeniable and witnessed in field consistently
by myself and many others, Erik truly cares deeply about wanting to see
men have success in this most difficult of departments. He devotes
himself fully as a coach and as a friend and will ensure that you get
SO much more than your money's worth."
-Jonathan H., San Francisco, CA
"Erik is the best I've ever seen.
I
think what separates him from the rest is that he understands what the
core of attraction really is. He cuts all the bullsh*t and that makes
him very effective. It also makes him a great teacher since you learn
only what is necessary and real. People learn quickly from him.
This
style is very open, honest and direct, something that appeals to all
people, not just women. He is very passionate about what he does and it
shows. He has this uncanny ability to infect people with his
enthusiasm. An all round great guy!"
-E.R. San Francisco, CA
More reviews here: http://social-freedom.com/testimonials.html
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